The concept is pretty simple actually. Once you invite someone to play, you’ll send them a question. They will answer the question, however the answer will not be revealed to you. You would then guess what answer you think they chose.
After you’ve done that, both answers would be revealed. Then BOOM! Now you all are having a full blown discussion of “Why you think I would’ve only lasted 15-30 Min?” Which will eventually end up in “Well, what time frame makes both of us comfortable?” Which then you all can work on that and possibly prevent looking for that void to be filled elsewhere. COMMUNICATION WORKS!